Since Meghan Markle and Prince Harry announced their decision to step back from royal duties in early 2020, public discussions have only intensified. The narrative around Meghan in particular has been polarizing, especially when it comes to her relationship with the British media and the royal family. A closer look at her own words and the reactions they’ve inspired reveals a complex picture.

Meghan’s Perspective: “It Didn’t Have to Be This Way”

In her own words, Meghan expressed a deep disappointment about her departure from the UK and the monarchy, saying, “It didn’t have to be this way.” She described the sadness of leaving, indicating that this wasn’t what she and Harry had envisioned. Far from rejecting the monarchy or British culture, Meghan actively sought to embrace her role, even beginning the process to become a British citizen. She called the UK her “new home” and threw herself into royal duties, bringing an American “can-do” spirit to her work.

But her enthusiasm was met with a barrage of negative press. Tabloids regularly published critical and, at times, racially charged articles, fueling a narrative that portrayed her in an unflattering light. Meghan’s frustration with the media is evident, but so too is her disappointment with the royal family’s perceived complicity in the attacks against her.

@AyshaKatula on X shared a widely held view, stating, “I believe the Sussexes would have stayed if the betrayal was not from within the royal family. They ignored the media since 2016, but the moment they found out the smear campaign came directly from the family, they left.” This sentiment reflects Meghan and Harry’s breaking point: learning that some of the hostility may have originated close to home.

The Impact of Tabloid Culture on Meghan’s Image

Since joining the royal family, Meghan faced criticism that seemed disproportionate and relentless. Commenters like @LeoMSB2023 pointed out the selective outrage, saying, “She never said anything against the people of the UK. H&M did call out the RF institution & the UK media, but they never said anything against the people of the UK.” This disconnect has fueled misperceptions, often overshadowing her charitable contributions and community work.

Many supporters believe that Meghan’s “American optimism” was simply incompatible with the reserved culture of the British monarchy, a sentiment echoed by commenters like @Alice45055426, who wrote, “The country is full of miserable grouchies; they don’t appreciate optimism and go-getters.” While this view may be an oversimplification, it does highlight a cultural clash that might have exacerbated the negative press.

The Role of Titles and Tradition

Much of the public criticism centers on Meghan and Harry’s titles. Critics argue that if Meghan opposes the monarchy, she should relinquish her titles entirely. This perspective, represented by @lindypoo63’s comment, “If she abhors everything the monarchy and the UK stand for, why cling onto that title?” captures the frustration felt by some who view the Sussexes’ departure as hypocritical.

Supporters counter that Meghan never rejected the monarchy itself but instead criticized the outdated systems and harmful practices within it. As @robinsamuels525 pointed out, “The title really gets under their skin. She is married to a Prince, you know.” This perspective reflects an understanding that the titles come with their marriage, irrespective of their royal duties.

A Growing Divide: The Media, the Monarchy, and Public Opinion

The controversies surrounding Meghan and Harry reveal deeper issues within both the British media landscape and the institution of the monarchy itself. Commenter @GlowanneLee commented, “The double standards of the British media are astonishingly blatant.” These double standards have not only influenced public perception but have also led to ongoing conversations about the role of race, class, and privilege in British society.

As Meghan and Harry continue their journey in the United States, the narrative around them is likely to keep evolving. For now, public opinion remains sharply divided, with critics questioning their intentions and supporters calling out the harmful role of the press. However, one point is clear: Meghan’s experience has sparked a broader discussion about the British monarchy, the tabloid press, and the cultural divide that sometimes surfaces between the UK and the US.

Comments:

• @ZandiSussex: “This situation with Meghan and the British press is a classic case of double standards. It’s high time people see through the bias.”
• @HenryDo07912798: “Well, we in the UK are glad the vile grifter has left this wonderful country for the land of false plastic fattys.”
• @TudorChick1501: “Wild to see how people who spread conspiracy theories about Meghan demand ‘decorum’ for other royals. Hypocrisy at its finest.”
• @SueDodd91147295: “It’s always the same sad trolls who can’t seem to let Meghan live her life without judgment.”

The controversy surrounding Meghan Markle is emblematic of the changes and challenges facing the monarchy and British society. While opinions on her departure differ, her story has undeniably led to important conversations about identity, responsibility, and the power of the media.