It’s fascinating how conversations about Harry and Meghan continue to dominate certain corners of the internet. The irony, though, is the peculiar behavior of the so-called “haters.” For people who claim to detest Harry and Meghan, they sure spend an inordinate amount of time consuming their content, dissecting every word, and scrutinizing every gesture. This obsessive focus raises an interesting question: are they fans in denial?
Consider this: if you genuinely dislike someone or have no interest in them, why would you devote hours to watching their documentaries, listening to their interviews, or keeping tabs on their lives? The logical reaction would be indifference—after all, time is precious, and most people would rather allocate it to things they enjoy. But for many of Harry and Meghan’s detractors, the opposite is true.
This phenomenon, often referred to as “hate-watching,” speaks volumes about the underlying psychology at play. It’s not just a passive disinterest—it’s an active engagement. And while this engagement is fueled by negativity, it inadvertently contributes to the very success the critics claim to resent. Every click, every view, and every comment helps amplify Harry and Meghan’s reach, putting money in their pockets and expanding their influence.
At its core, this behavior seems to stem from an inability to look away. Whether it’s because Harry and Meghan are emblematic of broader cultural shifts or because their choices challenge traditional norms, they evoke strong emotions. To some, they are heroes; to others, they are villains. But either way, they remain undeniably compelling.
It’s also worth noting that not everyone who engages in this discourse is genuinely interested in the royals. Many simply find the drama entertaining. The back-and-forth, the snarky comments, and the memes—it’s all part of the show. But for those who claim to loathe Harry and Meghan while simultaneously keeping up with every detail of their lives, it’s worth asking: who’s really winning here?
As for those of us who have chosen to step away from the royal spectacle—whether it’s Camilla’s podcast, Kate and William’s initiatives, or even the Earthshot Prize—there’s something refreshing about reclaiming that time and energy. It’s not about apathy; it’s about focusing on what truly matters to us.
So, to the hate-watchers out there: maybe it’s time to reevaluate where your energy goes. After all, life is too short to be consumed by people you claim not to care about. And for those of us watching from the sidelines, let’s continue to engage in these discussions with perspective, understanding, and, hopefully, a little more kindness.